And how do you propose to revert that trend?

It's essential we rein in out-of-control cell-phone use. What we have is a nasty combination of high technology, a dumbed-down society and a period of time when common courtesy is already down the toilet.

I commute by bus from New Jersey to New York City and the horror stories are endless. Phones are ringing at car-alarm noise levels when you're trying to get a nap; this makes it a health issue, not just a social issue. People can easily put their phones on vibrate or lamp mode, by the way.

Ask for miminal courtesy and you get maximum attitude--one fellow passenger, whom I asked to please quiet down, spitefully talked louder and dialed up her friends, so that the return calls could add to the noise.

Here are some things we can do:

* We must have separate cell- and non-cell areas in commuter transit, restaurants and the like.
* Require patrons to put ringers on silent or lamp mode. We ban boom-boxes, don't we?
* Businesses, who are usually reluctant to tell customers how to behave, should realize that for every cell-phone jerk they placate, it's bad for business because others are turned off.
* Responsible cell-phone users should speak out against the wacko elements in their midst--sadly, too often they have been enablers through their silence. There's an awful lot of nimbyism among cell-phone owners.
* Confront the offenders (legally, of course), and subject them to ridicule, if you must.

Hope this helps.

I don't think cell phones spontaneously disable peoples sense of civility and courtesy. I think the introduction of cell phones into our society merely highlights or draws attention to the fact that we have produced a generation or two of very self-centered people. Now we just have to find out why and then take the courageous efforts to do something about it.

I think you're right, RKeith. The basic frustration isn't the cellphone, it's the sense of entitlement and complete lack of common courtesy shown by people using cellphones. How to change that? I dunno, to be honest...

Well, this was written back in 2003...it's 2007 now, and I hate what I call the 'cell phone culture'...I'm completely flummoxed why people find a need to talk on a cell phone while driving or in public if it is not an emergency or important business call (and if driving should ALWAYS pull over if it's an 'important call')...Can't people even leave their cell phones at home once in awhile, when making a trip to the store?...Why are people constantly attached to their phones?...I don't get it...I'm finding technology and the culture at large becoming more and more obnoxious...

There was a column written a couple yrs. ago by a columnist in 'Financial Times' about 'cell phones' and the breakdown of civility...He said it so well, and I wish I had his statements...

This breakdown of common civility seems to keep happening...and is a big problem...